Guy Wheatley
The Texarkana Gazette
It was a commanding voice. It was a little louder than the others in
the general babble that filled the airport. Something in it demanded my
attention. I could see a tall man animatedly talking to a group of people
standing in the check-in line. He was making eye contact with his audience.
His face drew my eyes to him so that I did not see the people to whom he
was speaking.
I didn't want to eavesdrop on a conversation that didn't involve me,
but I couldn't help listening. Something about him gently demanded my attention.
As my brain began interpreting his words, I became a little confused. I
hadn't noticed any children in the line, but his slow, patient instructions
sounded as though they were directed at children. ìI have to talk to the
lady about you,î he said in a slow, clear tone. ìI'll have to talk about
you one at a time, so don't get excited if I don't talk about you at first.î
One of the people to whom he had been speaking began rocking back and
forth. The addressee made a move that was something between raising his
hand and scratching his head then mumbled something I couldn't make out.
I glanced for the first time at the people to whom the man was speaking.
They were people with special needs. The young man rocking back and forth
appeared to have Down syndrome. I quickly realized that the gentleman who
had first caught my attention was in charge of this group.
Getting through an airport by yourself can be trying. I've never taken
small children with me on a flight, but I've watched others do it. I thought
that only parental love could induce someone to go through such an ordeal.
I was wrong.
This man was herding five or six people, with the minds of children
but the bodies of adults, through one of the most patience-trying experiences
people go through voluntarily. His tone was authoritative and left little
room for dissent. Yet he didn't sound harsh or unkind. His charges showed
no fear of him. Indeed, their attitude seemed to be one of respectful obedience.
They huddled close to him, seeking support and comfort.
He talked to them explaining what was about to happen with more patience
than most parents I've seen. He was careful to prepare them for what would
happen over the next few minutes so that there were no surprises.
I made my way to my own gate, leaving the man with his charges behind.
As I sat, waiting to board my flight, I again noticed parents with young
children. I observed several techniques for controlling tired, cranky little
ones expected to sit quietly for a couple of hours. None had the skills
I had witnessed earlier. None had the patience, either. I began to understand
what an extraordinary individual the man I watched earlier was.
The more cynical among us might say he was just doing his job. I don't
think his charges would agree. I wouldn't agree, either. I've met thousands
of people in my life. I doubt that more than two of them could do what
I watched this man do. The patience he displayed wasn't the result of a
learned discipline. It was a manifestation of the dedication and concern
he held for others. He had skills born of long practice, but they were
built upon intrinsic qualities I believe he was born with.
Books about angels have become popular in the last few years. I've
looked over a few. An author in the flyleaf of one book insisted that God
has created beings with an increased morality and capacity for love to
watch over us. Many books describe angels based on popular belief, classical
art, or Biblical authority. Some have wings and halos others have flaming
swords. Some are gargantuan, others diminutive. Most can fly.
Let me describe one of them. He is about 5-feet 5-inches tall and weighs
about 145 pounds with thinning blond hairóand he needs an airline ticket
to fly.
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